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Depression Therapy

How to Choose the Best Depression Therapy For You: Depression Therapy in Toronto and Across Ontario

  • Do you find it hard to get out of bed, or even motivated to get your day started?

  • Are you struggling with feelings of hopelessness or overwhelming sadness?

  • Have you found yourself distancing yourself from others and the world around you?

  • Have you felt suicidal or wished you were not around sometimes?

It can be incredibly debilitating and difficult to live with depression. At times, you may wonder if there is any hope or if things will ever improve. Men are often taught or expected to power through and put on a brave face, despite how one feels inside or with what one might be struggling with. The good news is that there is hope for those who seek treatment for their depression.

If you struggle with depression, you are not alone


Approximately one out of every 8 Canadians will struggle with depression at one point their lives, and approximately 6% of the Canadian population is on one anti-depressant medication to treat depression. Depression often accompanies other feelings of shame, guilt, sadness, and grief.


What are the signs and symptoms of depression? 


The symptoms of depression vary and may include:

  • Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood

  • Feelings of hopelessness or helplessness

  • Feelings of irritability, frustration, or restlessness 

  • Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or shame

  • Decreased energy, fatigue, or feeling "slowed down"

  • Difficulty concentrating, recalling, or making decisions

  • Difficulty sleeping, early morning awakening, or oversleeping

  • Noticeable changes in appetite or unplanned weight loss/gain

  • Thoughts of death or suicide, or attempts at suicide

  • Aches or pains, headaches, tension, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause that do not ease even with treatment

  • Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that used to bring joy

  • Suicide attempts or thoughts of death or suicide

In order to meet the criteria for depression, these symptoms have to occur most of the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks. While these symptoms can be difficult to manage or struggle with, the good news is that there are options and depression therapy can be helpful for those looking to improve their overall functioning and mental health.

Men struggle in different ways with depression, and often it goes unnoticed or untreated

While depression can be treated effectively, many men do not seek help due to stigma and shame associated with mental health issues. However, with proper treatment, depression can be managed, and individuals can lead fulfilling lives.

Therapy is an effective form of treatment for depression. There are many different types of therapy, each with its own strengths and limitations. When it comes to depression therapy for men, there are some specific considerations that need to be taken into account.

One of the most important considerations is that men often have a harder time admitting that they need help. There is still a stigma around mental health issues, and many men feel that seeking help is a sign of weakness. This can make it difficult for them to take the first step in seeking treatment. Therefore, it is important to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where men feel comfortable discussing their feelings and concerns.

Another consideration is that men tend to have different coping mechanisms than women. For example, men may be more likely to turn to alcohol or drugs to cope with their depression. They may also be more likely to engage in risky behaviors or act out in anger. Therefore, it is important to tailor therapy to meet the specific needs of men and to help them develop healthy coping mechanisms.

CBT Therapy is one option to treat Depression

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of therapy that has been shown to be effective in treating depression. CBT focuses on identifying negative thoughts and behaviors and replacing them with more positive ones. It is a structured, goal-oriented therapy that involves a set number of sessions. In CBT, the therapist works with the client to identify negative thought patterns and teaches them how to replace them with more positive ones. The client is also taught coping skills and relaxation techniques to help manage their symptoms.

CBT has been shown to be effective in treating depression in men. A study published in the Journal of Affective Disorders found that CBT was effective in reducing symptoms of depression in men, and that it was just as effective as medication. The study also found that men were more likely to adhere to CBT than medication, suggesting that it may be a preferred form of treatment for some men.

Another type of therapy that may be effective for depression in men is Interpersonal Therapy (IPT). IPT focuses on improving relationships and communication skills. It is based on the idea that depression is often caused by difficulties in relationships, and that improving relationships can lead to a reduction in symptoms. IPT is a short-term therapy that typically lasts 12 to 16 weeks. IPT has been shown to be effective in treating depression in men. A study published in the Journal of Affective Disorders found that IPT was effective in reducing symptoms of depression in men, and that it was more effective than medication. The study also found that men were more likely to adhere to IPT than medication, suggesting that it may be a preferred form of treatment for some men.

Group therapy may also be effective for depression in men. Group therapy involves a therapist working with a group of individuals who are all experiencing similar issues. The group provides a safe and supportive environment where individuals can discuss their feelings and concerns. Group therapy can be particularly effective for men, as it allows them to see that they are not alone in their struggles and to learn from the experiences of others.

What are the causes of depression? 

The causes of depression and the risk factors for those with depression vary widely.

  • Brain chemistry: a chemical imbalance in parts of the brain that manages mood, thoughts, sleep, appetite, and behavior

  • Hormone levels: Changes in testosterone that may cause men to experience depression due to low levels of the hormone

  • Family history: Individuals with a family history of depression or another mood disorder may be at higher risk of depression

  • Medical conditions: Some medical conditions such as chronic illness or pain, insomnia, Parkinson's Disease, insomnia, stroke, or cancer may put you at increased use of depression

  • Substance use/addiction: Individuals that are addicted to substances or behaviours tend to have higher rates of depression symptoms.

  • Life transitions/changes: Those who have experienced a loss or change in their life (death of loved one/loss of job/moving to a new place), particularly if there is more than one, may be at greater risk for short-term depression

Some ways men can get help or treat their depression

There are several treatment methods available for depression, including:

  1. Psychotherapy: This is a type of talk therapy that involves working with a therapist to identify and change negative thinking patterns and behaviors. There are different types of psychotherapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and interpersonal therapy (IPT), that can be effective in treating depression.

  2. Medication: Antidepressant medication can help relieve symptoms of depression by balancing the levels of certain chemicals in the brain. The most commonly prescribed antidepressants are selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as Prozac and Zoloft.

  3. Exercise: Regular exercise has been shown to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression. Exercise can increase the production of endorphins, which are natural mood-boosting chemicals in the brain.

  4. Self-care: Practicing self-care can also help manage symptoms of depression. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, practicing relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga, and engaging in activities that bring you pleasure.

  5. Support groups: Joining a support group for people with depression can provide emotional support and a sense of community.

It's important to note that treatment for depression may involve a combination of these methods, and it may take time to find the right combination that works best for an individual. It's also important to seek professional help from a mental health provider for an accurate diagnosis and treatment plan.

It is important for men to find a therapist who they feel comfortable with and who understands their unique needs and concerns.


Some men may prefer a therapist of the same gender, while others may prefer a therapist who specializes in working with men. One of the key benefits of therapy for depression is that it provides a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to express their thoughts and feelings. Men may have been taught to suppress their emotions, particularly negative emotions like sadness or fear. In therapy, men can learn to recognize and express their emotions in a healthy way. This can help them to develop a greater sense of emotional intelligence and resilience.

Another benefit of therapy for depression is that it can help men to develop healthy coping mechanisms. Men may be more likely to turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms like alcohol or drugs when they are struggling with depression. Therapy can help men to identify and address these unhealthy behaviors and develop healthier ways of coping with stress and difficult emotions.

In addition to therapy, there are some lifestyle changes that men can make to help manage their depression.


These include getting regular exercise, eating a healthy diet, getting enough sleep, and avoiding alcohol and drugs. Men may also find it helpful to develop a support network of friends and family who they can turn to for help and support.

In some cases, medication may be recommended as part of a comprehensive treatment plan for depression. Antidepressant medication can be effective in reducing symptoms of depression, particularly when used in conjunction with therapy. It is important for men to work closely with their healthcare provider to find the right medication and dosage, as well as to monitor any potential side effects.

With proper treatment, including therapy, men can learn to manage their symptoms and lead fulfilling lives. It is important for men to seek help if they are struggling with depression, and to find a therapist who they feel comfortable working with. With the right support and treatment, men can learn to recognize and express their emotions in a healthy way, develop healthy coping mechanisms, and find hope and healing.

If you live in Ontario and want help for your depression, reach out today!


If you're struggling with depression in Toronto, seeking therapy can be a crucial step towards healing. It's important to remember that you don't have to face this alone. First Step Men's Therapy offers free 20-minute consultations to help you determine if therapy is right for you and to answer any questions you may have. Our trained depression therapists can provide the support and guidance you need to regain control of your life. To schedule a consultation, call us at (289) 216-5075 or click the "Book Now" button on our website.

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